Everyone says it will happen when you are not looking. But what if it happens when you are? Does that make a difference? If it happens when you are not looking does that make it more real? Because you weren't expecting it which means you have no expectations and it just a pleasant surprise, or even fate.
Then there are people who believe you make your own fate. So if you are looking, and therefor you have expectations, does that make them harder to meet? Because you are hoping to find someone do you think perhaps then you are just going along with what happens because you wanted that something. Is it less special? Are you willing to comprimise what you really want because someone comes along who wants to be with you?
Apparently everyone has a type, but time and time again what I thought was my type wasn't working out. If I could have it my way I would create a guitar playing, poem reading, funny and kind sex god. But this is real life. I was reading in Cosmo that we all have our version of ourselves. Who we think we are and and what we stand for. But people who are around us all the time see us for who we really are. See the things we don't, so they have a good perception of what we could use, job wise and even romantically and so forth. So when people try to set you up it is because they see what you have in that other person, and you should give it a try because it could be a pleasant surprise. It's proven that the person we are going to marry is probably already in your social circle, a friend of a friend and so forth. You may not have met them yet, or even like them but the possibility is there.
So whether you are looking or not, make the best of each situation that arises, you could be pleasantly surprised. And if you aren't well at least you tried.
The Hopeless Romantic x0x
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